good or bad?

do you think that it is wrong to gossip?

becuase what i define as gossiping is- talking about someone behind there back and saying mean things about them.

it seems wrong. but if you think about- do you think that you want to be told that someone REALLY hates you at the moment, for a little thing that you did. i dont think that i would.'

and someone told me that- you have a right to your own opinion about someone else. you are not obligated to like them, so why arent you allowed to say it? just because its mean? well saying whatever you hate about them right to there face is mean.

everyone does it.

and then there are those people who say that its wrong, and that you shouldnt do it, and then the next second they turn around and start saying things about another person they dislike.

we only every seem to get mad at people when they are talking about someone you like. and then when they are talking about someone you like- you just sit there and listen. you dont want to say anything because here there are a WHOLE bunch of people who hate that person you love. if you say something all the negative attention is placed on your shoulders. and no one wants that do they?


so im not sure what to do?

sometimes you just need time away from people. they might be annoying you at the certain moment for no reason in particular, and so i feel that there is no need to confront them, when nothing is ACUTALLY wrong. why do they have to know that you are pissed, when you can get over it in one day? you just need to realease that anger that is bottled up inside of you. and once its all out in the open, its alright again.

so why tell that person? when it would just hurt them for no reason at all?

becuase of everyone gossips about someone, one time or the other. because if we didnt, one tiny little comment said from that 'annoying' friend, by litterally blow you head off.